It is a fact that men are very curious about women. The more of a mystery you are - the more attracted they become. Men
today are not interested in women who are boring and oh-so-predictable! Here are some excellent tips that can help you intrigue a man in seconds!
Don't be an open book
Don't spill the beans and let him know your whole life story within minutes of meeting him! In the first place, he is going to think that you talk too much and also that you presume too much! Don't give him this negative impression of you. Be a bit reserved and show him that you have class!
Give away just enough!
Let him know just enough about you that will keep him interested and wanting to know more! Be smart and let him see just enough about you that will keep him eager to hear more. Do all you can about attracting him with your personality, charm and individuality and he will keep coming back for more.
Be vague and non-committal
If he thinks that you are hard to get, and unavailable - he is going to be tempted to chase you. Don't give in and get too close the moment he shows some interest in you. Instead, make him work at chasing you. This will keep his attention on you and you will appear mysterious and unattainable to him.
Be as elusive as an eel
The more elusive you are the more motivated he will be to get you. Be busy and get involved in other activities. Make sure you have plenty of friends and be seen having a whale of a time with them. The more popular you get, the more he will want to be a part of your life.
Let him do all the talking!
One way of not letting him know too much about you is to let him do all the talking! Ask him questions about his interests, work and hobbies. He will enjoy talking about himself for a change that that will put you in a higher position that the normal female he is accustomed to who want to talk about themselves.
What you do not say, counts!
It is what you keep to yourself, and don't say is what keeps him interested. Where males are concerned, "less is definitely more!" The best part of this is you get to put in your bit in such a way as to make the conversation interesting and not boring. He goes away thinking you are a great girl!
Be sensitive to the situation
Learn to read the signs and pick up his signals. He is going to let you know - either knowingly or unknowingly- what he thinks of you. If you can sense him getting bored, change the topic and behave in a manner that instantly catches his attention and intrigues him. It is easier to win his admiration when you concentrate on being a good person. Dress and behave in a manner that will automatically grab his attention.
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