Each woman harbors a secret desire that her man gives her more affection than he is currently giving her. But it is a fine line that one must tread to get this without appearing needy. Here is what you should do to get your guy to give you more affection:
Give the impression of being strong
If you want a guy to give you more attention then you have to ditch the helpless female act. Acting like a helpless female puts a man off. Instead you need to make him see that you are doing all you can to handle all your problems yourself. When he sees you making the "impression" of being strong he will go all out and be all affectionate towards you.
Make him feel special with you
When you need affection you have to learn to give affection. By doing so you shall be making your man feel special with you and your feelings towards him will be reciprocated.
Look like you are getting a lot of attention elsewhere
If you are in need of attention from your man he will not give it to you. Instead, make it seem that you are getting a lot of attention from other quarters such as from office colleagues, friends and other acquaintances and your man will go all out to outdo the attention that you get from them.
Show him that he makes you happy
It is very important to appease a man's ego by showing him that he makes you happy. If a man is with you he feels that it is his job to keep you happy and do all that is required to in this regard. Show him that he is doing a good job and he will work harder to give you affection.
Never be controlling and demanding
If you are the controlling and demanding woman who inspects every aspect of a man's life and character be sure that soon he will begin to resent you. Relax yourself in the relationship and give him space and freedom to enjoy the relationship and he will give you all the affection you want.
Make him see what he has got is good
Sometimes all you need to do is make a man see what you are worth. Make him realize in simple small ways of the joy that you bring to his life and he will be more affectionate.
Take some time off each other
Absence makes the heart grow fonder. Take some time off each other occasionally and you will see that your man will feel refreshed and will give you more affection.
Give the impression of being strong
If you want a guy to give you more attention then you have to ditch the helpless female act. Acting like a helpless female puts a man off. Instead you need to make him see that you are doing all you can to handle all your problems yourself. When he sees you making the "impression" of being strong he will go all out and be all affectionate towards you.
Make him feel special with you
When you need affection you have to learn to give affection. By doing so you shall be making your man feel special with you and your feelings towards him will be reciprocated.
Look like you are getting a lot of attention elsewhere
If you are in need of attention from your man he will not give it to you. Instead, make it seem that you are getting a lot of attention from other quarters such as from office colleagues, friends and other acquaintances and your man will go all out to outdo the attention that you get from them.
Show him that he makes you happy
It is very important to appease a man's ego by showing him that he makes you happy. If a man is with you he feels that it is his job to keep you happy and do all that is required to in this regard. Show him that he is doing a good job and he will work harder to give you affection.
Never be controlling and demanding
If you are the controlling and demanding woman who inspects every aspect of a man's life and character be sure that soon he will begin to resent you. Relax yourself in the relationship and give him space and freedom to enjoy the relationship and he will give you all the affection you want.
Make him see what he has got is good
Sometimes all you need to do is make a man see what you are worth. Make him realize in simple small ways of the joy that you bring to his life and he will be more affectionate.
Take some time off each other
Absence makes the heart grow fonder. Take some time off each other occasionally and you will see that your man will feel refreshed and will give you more affection.
Reference;krista hiles |
