best dating tips for women

1. Get prepared for dating. If you really want to succeed in the dating game, be ready to commit to dating. Half-heartedness won't work. In fact, it won’t even get you half-way. If you really want to date, put some effort into it. Do some research and think about what you want out of dating. Prepare yourself for the inevitable rejection we all face at some point in dating and commit not to give up.
2. Get your act together. Begin a regime of looking your best. Join a gym, read health magazines, get fit and start a diet. Get your hair cut or styled and begin a new regime of good grooming or beauty treatment. Though it will not find you a date in itself, you will feel a million times more confident about yourself, and others can sense that.
3. Go shopping and treat yourself to new clothes and even a whole new look. Get your image right, one that you can manage and live with, but one that flatters you. Don't try to be someone you’re not, but amplify and accentuate your positives. Throw out those tired jeans, old sweaters or cardigans and spruce yourself up. Your date will appreciate that you demonstrated some effort.
4. Think about what you want to gain from dating and what timeframes you expect. Do you see yourself married within 2 years? If you do, then approach dating accordingly. If you are more laid back and don't take dating too seriously then ask yourself some honest questions about why you are dating and what you hope to achieve. If it is purely sex then ask yourself if you are about to be honest with those you hope to date.
5. Surround yourself with people who will support your dating aims. By following the first four tips you will feel better and be more focused. Don’t sabotage this by sitting around with friends who are negative about love and relationships (often the married ones). Start attending social functions frequented by singles. Sitting alongside couples at dinner parties in suburbia is not necessarily where you need to be right now.
6. Choose those you have a good chance of dating. Be realistic. In other words, your dating is based on the whole package you present as well as just your personality. If you are looking for a glamour girl or boy and want to date someone trendy and gorgeous, great! Just know that others will expect you to be the same.
7. Join clubs, societies, sports events, drama groups -- anything that might help you meet like-minded potential partners. You will not meet people by staying indoors and playing video games – many have tried and failed at this approach.
8. Take time off from dating occasionally if it’s not going well or causing dating fatigue. Recharging your batteries and keeping confidence and optimism levels high is an absolute must. We all hit rough patches, but don’t let your search for love become a death march. Date in phases if necessary.
9. Enjoy dating for what it is, dating. It is meeting people and socializing and spending time in the company of stimulating individuals who may or may not play a bigger part in your life down the road. The fact is, most people have something interesting to offer. While you may not be out on the dating scene looking for new friends, you may well find one or two fabulous people along the way.
10. Never make yourself too available. People like mystery and enigma and the thrill of the chase when dating. As part of keeping up the mystery, do not sleep with your dates early on. The longer a person is made to chase and fall for you within reason, the more likely that love may blossom. (And yes, this goes for both men AND women!) If the chemistry peaks too early, your emotions may never have time to catch up and the relationship will eventually wither away. 

How to Make Her Want You - Ways to Spark Attraction in a Woman

Answer this question honestly. When you see a woman and you get the urge to get to know her, are you doing it to be a friend, or are you doing it because you want a little more than friendship? More than likely the answer is that you want to have more than just a friendship with her. So, you need to be able to spark attraction with a woman, and truthfully, there is no time to waste, because women usually decide rather quickly what you are to them.
If her first impression is that you are not the kind of guy she wants to date, if there is no attraction there, then you might as well check her off and move on to the next girl. Yeah, it might not be the rosy picture that you want, but it is the reality of it.
Here are some ways to spark attraction with a woman and make her want you:
1. Don't procrastinate, make your move.
You know, the longer that you wait to make a move on a woman, the more likely it is that NOTHING is going to happen. Now, I know that there are some situations where it looks like it plays out in the guy's favor to wait. I won't deny that. But on the whole, the longer that you wait to show some kind of interest or to make a move on a woman, the more likely it is that she will NEVER see you in the way that you want her to.
2. Tease her and show her that you are not out for her approval.
Trying to hard to win a woman's approval is akin to hammering in the last nail in the coffin of your libido. If you want to get her to want you, then you need to show her that you are not a desperate guy, that you have no problems at all teasing her in a fun way, and that you are not going to be a world class suck up just because you like what you see.
3. Elevate the sexual tension and escalate her attraction.
Why do you need to even bother to tease a woman in a playful way? Because it creates sexual tension and it makes her want to become a lot more than just friends with you. Most guys ignore this aspect, and then they wonder why they are sitting at the table while she is on the dance floor with another dude. One that knows how to create sexual tension and escalate her attraction.